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Meet Our First #CraftyArtist, Maureen Graham

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Our first Crafty Artist is Maureen Graham.

The Joy of Aging

One of the great joys of aging is that you have your friends for longer, especially if they are like Maureen Graham, who is into #ArtsandCrafts, #InspiredbyBeauty. Maureen and I met in Grahamstown when her husband Gavin and mine, Matthew, were both studying for the Ministry. We formed a strong bond of friendship and have seen one another through good and bad times. We have been friends for 47 years. Now isn’t that just wonderful? I think so.

Out of Chaos comes Order

Maureen is one of the most wonderfully creative people I have met on this amazing journey called life. She is one of the few people I know, who can walk into a room and know exactly which piece of furniture should go where to make the most of the space and show off the piece to its full advantage.

She has been to help me when I wanted to have a move around of furniture. What great advice I got and I loved what it all looked like at the end. Thankfully we had a very able helper named Pamela who worked for me to help shift the heavy things. In Maureen s eyes, there is a place for everything and everything in its place. How I wish I could be more like her.

Making the Most of it

Meet our first #CraftyArtist Maureen Graham. She sews, crafts and paints. #craftyart

Now this was a very good skill for her to have as in those days of yore, the Methodist Church would furnish the Manse. A lot of the furniture had been well-used by the previous minister and family and were often cast-off pieces, kindly donated by church members when they were upgrading their furniture.

It was rather a challenge at times to make this eclectic group of furniture look as good as possible. As you can imagine, the furniture was always from different eras, not always ugly or totally worn-out but still not new and not chosen by the minister and his wife. Thankfully this practice is no longer in place.

Stylish Upcycling

In the many years we visited Maureen and Gavin in all their various charges, Maureen had managed to make really lovely homes for the family. All very stylish despite what she had to work with. It all came down to her ability with her sewing machine and also with her wonderful gift of bringing out the beauty in everything she touched.

A Time to Sew

Two subjects Maureen studied at school were Domestic Science and Art and these held her in good stead as a home-maker. She sewed all her own clothing, using her mother’s Singer sewing machine. Maureen moved to Cape Town when she was 21 and used her mother-in-law’s Brother sewing machine with which she made her wedding dress.

Time to Try Different Crafts

Over the years Maureen and I got to try many and varied art and crafts projects either together or separately. We were discussing it when I stayed with them this last weekend. We can recall making string light shades which were done by winding the string around a balloon putting cold glue onto the string and when it was dry, take out the balloon and there were our light shades. Great fun and very effective and attractive. These are some other crafts we tried:

  1. Batik
  2. Baumalerai
  3. Silk screening – making cards
  4. Slab work (pottery)
  5. Chrismond Tree decorations
  6. Glass Painting
  7. Découpage

I loved visiting Maureen and I still do as she is always trying something new. She is a stimulating friend to have in my life.

More Sewing

While in Grahamstown their first daughter, Catherine, was born. It was then that Maureen had the fun of making baby clothes and little girls dresses. She went on in later years to make Catherine’s wedding dress and all the dresses for the bridesmaids and her own outfit. A very gifted seamstress indeed. This called for a new machine and she purchased a Bernina for the job.

Maureen and Gavin’s second daughter Bonwyn was born in Worcester and with two little girls to look after, plus all the Church work expected of a Minister’s wife, there was not much time for all the arty-crafts.

Upcycling Furniture

It was the practice of the Methodist Church in those days to send their Ministers around the country to charges where ministry was needed. This turned out to be a costly business for the Church and they have since changed their ideas on this stance.

The uprooting of the Minister and his family was very disruptive as they might only be a some places for a year and then would be on the move again. The new garden would have been planted up, the furniture upcycled and all for the next Minister and wife to enjoy.

Crafting Together

Their move to Port Elizabeth was for me the most exciting one as we had moved their the year before and once again we were able to inspire each other with various craft ideas. Our children were good friends which helped a lot. We did a lot together. I have photos of us all on the beach and getting into out very tiny boat which at first was just a rowing boat. Gosh, did we have fun in that.

We then bought a 8hp motor for the boat so no more rowing. It only took four people at a push, so we all took turns putting up and down the Gamtoos river.

One of the funniest things to happen to us in Port Elizabeth was when Gavin and Maureen invited Matt and over to watch the boxing match between Mike Tyson and Michael Spinks going to come on at about 2am or some ungodly hour like that.

This venture meant waking our older son of about 8, to stagger half asleep to the car. Then carrying the two younger children. Settling them down in the car and off we went. It took about 20mins to drive there and then the unloading of children began and getting them down to sleep.

Maureen poured us coffee and we sat in anticipation for the boxing match to begin. It lasted 91 seconds.

Unbelievable! The whole process of carrying children etc. was then reversed. We laugh about it still. Those were such happy days and fortunately for Maureen and Gavin they were able to stay in Port Elizabeth for quite a number of years before the next move which was to Cape Town.

Making Unique Church Banners

In early 1990 Maureen and Gavin were sent to Welkom in the Free State to minister in the Church there. It was in Welkom that Maureen started up her first Banner Group. One of the crafts she did was painting on wood, making Christmas Tree Advent calendars. Maureen’s varied Art, Sewing and Craft talents have really come to the fore in all the churches they have served.

CraftyArts Church Banners

As well as being a very active Minister’s wife, she has started Banner Groups in at least four of the Churches they served in and with the collaboration of the group have made some absolutely stunning banners. Together they decided on a theme from the Bible and then work on a design. This is then drawn up and different members are responsible for various aspects of the design.

Senseless Distruction

On the night of 30th Dec, 1999 vandals broke into the Administration Block of the Church and when they found they couldn’t open the safe or any cabinets which might have contained things of value, they poured oil over things and set the place alight. Sadly 17 banners were burnt in that fire. All that hard work and beauty gone forever.

 

Making Wedding Dresses

When Bronwyn, their second daughter was married, Maureen saw the need to add to the sewing room by purchasing a Bernina overlocker. Once again making the wedding dress and dresses for the retinue.

Bitter Blow

It was at this time that Maureen was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis. This has not held my brave friend back from all her many and varied hobbies which give her so much satisfaction and joy.

No more Stashing

When they first started making banners, all the fabric, trimmings, beads etc. were stored by Maureen but she soon realized this was not working for her. These things take up valuable space and time looking for right piece of fabric, trim etc. Now they purchase what is required for each project which is much more satisfactory and saves a lot of time which would have been wasted by trying to use up scraps from previous banners.

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An Artist – Inspired by Beauty

Maureen isn’t able to sew much anymore due to her Rheumatoid Arthritis but began Water Color Painting 4 years ago. It began as a hobby but has become more than that now for Maureen. She has sold more than 50 paintings. She is presently Chairperson of the Art Group in Pringle Bay. Maureen organizes Exhibitions and Pop-up Galleries and Open Studios.

#CraftyArtistPaintings

She also belongs to an Art Group that meet every Friday morning from 9am until 1pm to paint together. This they have been doing for a number of years.

 

Meet our first #CraftyArtist Maureen Graham. She sews, crafts and paints. #craftyartShe had a funny experience a few weeks ago. Gavin drove her to the venue for the painting group and when they got there Maureen paints were missing. She really thought that everything had been packed into the car but no paints could be found. Gavin drove back to their house and looked there, no paints there either. The only thing they could think of was that they had been left on top of the car and as they drove they had come off somewhere. Maureen went out and bought more paints.

A call was put out to all friends in the area to look out for lost paints and believe it or not, they were spotted at the side of the road just after to the turnoff to Kleinmond. Most of them were still intact on the palette, only a few lost or broken.

These are Maureen’s Words:

“Through my painting I celebrate God’s beautiful creation. Water colour is my medium. It is translucent and challenging to work with. When I am painting I am lost in the wonder of the colours as they merge, move and bring to life something of the splendor that surrounds us.”

Seascapes and animals are the subjects Maureen loves to painting best. The list of commissioned paintings varies from places that bring back happy memories for people, their pets or homes. At the moment she has commissions to paint a dear little dog that was a beloved pet and another, a painting of a couple with theirs dogs on the beach, looking out to sea. I can’t wait to see them completed.

When I asked Maureen about the things she couldn’t do without in her studio, she said she is happy with everything she has but always loves painting with Lukas Paints and painting on 300gsm Bockingford paper.

Maureen is an optimist, nothing seems to get her down. I know that she is often in pain, she has to place the work she is busy with, in such a way that it doesn’t cause more pain in her shoulders.

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Artist’s Retreat

I visit Maureen and Gavin in Pringle Bay, a little seaside village near Cape Town, for what I call my Artist’s Retreat which is normally leaving home on Thursday around 11am and then coming home after lunch on Sunday. It is such a treat and I look forward to it in great anticipation. Maureen and I paint and Gavin looks after us. What a spoil.

We would love to hear from you

Hi, after reading this post I am sure your would like to leave Maureen a message.  You might have tried some of these lovely crafts yourself  or are now inspired to try your hand at one or all of them. Just think of the fun you could have with your friends if you start and Artists morning.

Jill Alexa

Jill of all Trades. Master of Many. Virtual Assistant to Lauren Kinghorn. Too busy to die.

12 Comments

  1. A remarkable woman I am very lucky to call Mom. Her paintings are gorgeous and reflect the beauty that comes from within her. Thank you for the lovely writing Jill, it was wonderful to read.

    • Hi Bronny, I totally agree. Thank you for the lovely comments. It has been such a pleasure to have you all as family friends.

  2. And it is her birthday today!
    She is an inspiration in so many ways; her creativity, optimism and compassion is limitless. I blessed to have her as my mom!
    Great article – took me back…

    • Hi Catherine, You are so right she is all of these things and more. I am also proud to have her as my friend. It has always been a pleasure to have this amazing friendship with you all.

  3. This is a lady that has a lot of talent, I would be proud to have a mom like her, you can see she is passionate with it, ans that makes it even more beautiful!

    • Thank you Emmanuel, I really appreciate you reading and commenting on my post about Maureen. She really is a very talented and lovely person.

  4. Not so many are blessed to be able to explore and improve their art skill. And it’s such a joy to know them personally, good for you, Jill. (: These works of art are amazingly beautiful. Well done Ms. Maureen.

    • Hi Jenni, It is really a pleasure to explore ones gifts that God has given so freely. Am so blessed to have Maureen in my life. She is a very dear friend. Thank you for reading and commenting on my blog about her wonderful talents.
      All the best.
      Jill

  5. What a lovely friend to share such good times with. I would have really enjoyed being with you two. I love doing crafts of all sorts, but my favorite is painting. God has gifted her with such talent. I pray healing for her arthritis and that she can enjoy many more years of painting!
    Blessings,
    Suzanne

    • Hi Suzanne, Thanks for these lovely comments. I also love painting, Used to paint in oils but now trying my hand at water colors. Loving it.I am indeed very blessed to have Maureen as a friend.
      Blessings,
      Jill

  6. Hey there Jill,

    I have to say that Maureen is the person I need right now if the paintings and the knack for interior home design are anything to go by.

    I would really use her skills because my house is in a mess right now. I need more space and more lively colourful paintings on my walls.

    She really is something when it comes to arts. Give her my thumbs ups.

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